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Nice Guys – # 2 Impress Her Without Appearing Desperate

Part 2 of 7 Series

Impress Her With Appearing Desperate: If you keep doing the same old things you will end up with the same old result. You are reading this because you want women to eat out of your hand – so keep reading.

Ooze confidence socially – There is only one way you can do this and that is to practise being sociable with everyone you meet and act as though you are confident. If you act confidently, you will be surprised how your confidence will increase. NEVER BE SELECTIVE WHEN PRACTISING. You need to practise on everyone.

Have an extra little chat with people you would normally just say hello to. For people you would not normally speak to: say “hello”; in lifts, passing in corridors, in shops, wherever you are keep speaking to people. It may not be your style however it’s going to give you confidence socially and you need this confidence if you are going to impress her.

If you start saying “hello” to people in corridors without stopping, you will notice that people will make an effort to speak to you next time you pass. Try to become popular. Popular people speak to EVERYONE, they are not choosey. Popular people offer assistance when they can. Popular people listen to what others have to say and remember things that have been said so that they can follow up when appropriate.

Popular men speak to all women not just the attractive, single women. Have you noticed how the playboy chats up all women – from 8 – 80 years, all sizes and shapes? He doesn’t differentiate. By the time he gets to a stunning woman he is so practised he can charm her sox off on automatic pilot.

Become more sociable with your friends. Go out more. Don’t let your woman think you are a recluse. It would be no fun for her if you have no fun. Make an effort. It’s all part of practising.

Three very important tips to developing your social confidence are :
1 Laugh at others’ jokes, whether they are funny or not. Be quick to laugh. Get into the habit of laughing often.
2 Accept compliments with thanks and try to repay the compliment at the time. Always, always, always say something like: “Thanks, I was just admiring your …………..”
3 Pay compliments when you think them. Don’t worry about whether your mates will get a swollen head, tell them when you think they are doing something great or look good. This will get you into the habit of being able to comfortably compliment a woman without feeling awkward.

You have to start somewhere so start with your friends and family. Practise, practise, practise. So that you can do this on automatic pilot – so that feels natural to you.

Most men shy away from really beautiful women. They don’t have the confidence to approach them. We find at Entre Nous dating agency that we seem to get more than our share of the stunningly beautiful women because men are afraid to approach them.

At an Entre Nous Spring Madness Ball, the most beautiful woman in the room and yes, she was breathtakingly beautiful with a Barbie doll figure, complained that no one asked her to dance.

You can have a very beautiful woman; all you have to do is act confidently. You can be confident in the knowledge that you most probably won’t have much competition because even the jerks will not have the confidence to pursue her.

The nice genuine guys who are a little on the shy side tell me that at nightclubs the used car salesmen get all the good looking women. Yet girls tell me that the only guys they ever meet at nightclubs are used car salesmen. The used car salesmen have developed confidence through their job. However most girls are inclined to think of the used car salesman as superficial because he is not at all subtle and comes on too strong too soon.

When you approach a beautiful woman, don’t act like a used car salesman and come on too strong. She will see through superficiality. Treat her like your sister or a female cousin; just think about friendship not sex. That way you won’t be so nervous and if you are relaxed she will feel safe with you too. After all if you are seeking a permanent partner it’s important to take it slowly. If she feels pressured she is most likely to run away.

Be careful to be relaxed and not needy. If you try too hard it will put her off too. It is better to leave her wanting more than to scare her away.

Headings in the Nice Guys – series

Nice Guys – # 1 Be Admired Without Appearing Desperate

Nice Guys – # 2 Impress Her Without Appearing Desperate

Nice Guys – # 3 Turn Her On Without Appearing Desperate

Nice Guys – # 4 Show You Care Without Appearing Desperate

Nice Guys – # 5 Be Attentive Without Appearing Desperate

Nice Guys – #6 Show Respect Without Appearing Desperate

Nice Guys – # 7 Amuse Her Without Appearing Desperate

Rosalind Baker is the Principal and Founder of Entre Nous Introduction Agency, Melbourne, Victoria, Australia, and author of 3 best sellers, Dial A Woman, Dial A Man and Dial A Personality To find out: Your Personality Type, or to find out”, Are You Eligible” or “Are you ready for a relationship?” visit: www.singles.net.au

About the Author

Rosalind Baker’s professional commitment to ‘match making’ is well into its second decade, although she has always possessed that innate ability to pair people off. She even introduced her ex-husband to his next wife! Having established Entre Nous: Relationship Consultants & Educators in 1991 she has now lost count of the number of relationships the organisation has helped to establish. While there have been many ‘fly-by-night’ introduction agencies over the past two decades in Melbourne, Entre Nous has stood the test of time. This is due, in no small part, to the professionalism and passion of Rosalind Baker. She has written three best sellers. The first, ‘Dial A Woman’ offers advice to Australian men on how to choose the right partner and then maintain a successful relationship. The obvious sequel, ‘Dial A Man’ advised women on how to recognise and attract the man of their dreams. While writing her third book, ‘Dial a Personality’, she realised she had discovered the successful formula for matching couples. As a journalist Rosalind has written extensively on social affairs and women’s issues and is a well-known social commentator on courtship. Rosalind has been the delegate representing Australian and New Zealand at the International Institute of Introduction Services. She is a keen follower of the Arts and supports Opportunity International. She had four children and with her new husband, Tom Baker, they now have 11 grandchildren between them.